Random Thoughts Post-THR

Originally posted to my Facebook page on December 30, 2015

All 21 staples are gone! I got pictures and video…lol. Didn’t hurt, just 3 of them stung a little. Have to wait 24 hours to shower without the saran wrap, AND I can try to sleep on my right side. Waiting on a call-back from the doctor to see if I can lose the compression tights, and trying to schedule my outpatient PT starting next week.

My therapist had me walk all the way down the hallway and back without my cane, and added a hip flexor stretch, mini-squats and balancing on one leg to my PT exercises. She said I’m doing great, that many patients she works with are still using a walker only. Don’t worry….I’m only doing as much as I feel I can. When I get tired I rest….even when I just feel like it, I go lay down. Lol.

Later….the same day…..

It’s time for a green smoothie. It’s easy to eat well when you feel good physically and emotionally. It’s tougher when you don’t feel well…even though that’s exactly the time your body needs good food the most.

Just a random nutrition thought. Lol.

December 31, 2015 Facebook musings….

Whoo hoo!! Made it into the front seat of my car!! I’ve been riding in the middle seat of the van ever since I was sprung from the hospital. Seat is pushed all the way back and it was easy-peazy getting in.

More random thoughts….January 2, 2016

Yesterday was slightly challenging. Some woman starting blowing up Joe B’s phone yesterday morning and woke me up, and I couldn’t go back to sleep. Ended up being a wrong number. Poor thing was trying to get a hold of her mom, who used to have Joe’s new number. The early phone calls made me feel tired all day. I did my exercises and got all out of breath…which was frustrating and slightly embarrassing. I have to keep reminding myself that I’m recovering from major surgery and things will get easier with time, rest, and healing.

My sister took over making the New Year’s cowboy bread. She told my dad she is still an apprentice, but I think she is catching on quickly. Her bread turned out really good. And she made some awesome beef barley soup that Sara really liked.

After dinner my mom said “You look really tired Shelley.” So I went to lay down. Around 7:30pm I fell asleep and slept until 11:40pm!!! I guess I was tired. I can’t believe I slept that hard for 4 hours…a 4 hour nap!! But I felt much better.

Now I’m wide awake. And FaceBooking. Looking for recipes. But I feel great. Lol.

And later….the same day……

Damn. I almost made it out of the house without my compression tights. I was using my grabbity-grabber 3000 and got myself dressed and then Joe pulled the detestable tights out of the dryer. Lol. Damn.

2 Weeks Post Hip Replacement Surgery

This was originally posted on my Facebook page on December 29, 2015

Yesterday marked the 2-week post-surgery date.

I am using a cane 95% of the time and only the walker when I get tired. My physical therapist added some new exercises onto my regimen, including hip raises and what feels like chair squats. Yay! And I have been cleared to walk short distances unassisted. I had felt like I could walk unassisted for a few days but I also know it will make me very sore, so it’s just short jaunts for now.

I had a bruise at the top of my calf on the surgery leg. Appeared out of nowhere but it didn’t hurt. The PT lady said that type of bruising is normal on the surgical leg, and she was quite surprised that I didn’t have more bruising around my ankle or other parts of my leg. I have been concerned about blood clots so it worried me a little, but glad to hear it was normal.

I am heading to the hospital for my last blood draw to monitor my blood thinners. Hoping to be off of them in a few days.

I really miss my ibuprofen. I had a wicked headache Sunday night that I couldn’t take anything for, except Tylenol or my painkillers, but I had to make sure I took them 4 hours apart. And Tylenol does nothing for any kind of pain I have, even before the surgery.

I’m learning that the level of being positive, or feeling like my emotional health is on the upswing, is directly related to how I feel physically. That headache cause my mood to plummet, and then I slept poorly that night. I felt sick and miserable all day yesterday. I got 11 hours of sleep last night so I’m hopeful today will feel better all the way around.

I am enjoying the downtime. Haven’t had this much downtime since long before I had kids. If anyone has any good movie recommendations, please send them my way.

And I get the 21 staples in my leg removed tomorrow!! Hoping they will let me toss the white compression tights with them. Lol. I’ll be so happy to take a shower without having my hip wrapped in Saran Wrap.

I’m very thankful for all the continued prayers and well-wishes. You have no idea. It gets tough, especially when there are other emotional battles to be fought in addition to my surgery recovery. So we take it day by day. I’m grateful for all my family and friends, especially the ones with me physically everyday: Joe B, my daughters, my parents and my sister and nephew. It’s hard to let others take care of you when you’re so used to being independent and taking care of others. But I truly appreciate it. It makes me all emotional when I think about it, especially the caring and concern they show, but in a good way.

Day 10 Post Hip Replacement Surgery

Originally posted to my Facebook page on December 23, 2015

Day 10 Post-Hip Replacement Surgery:

The good news – Physical therapy is going well. I got cleared yesterday to start using a cane! I still need my walker, it’s going to be a gradual increase of using my cane. Joe said he’s going to bead it. Awesome. And my PT exercises are getting easier every day, even though I’m surprised how tired I get afterwards. 3 more sessions of home PT and then after the New Year I start out-patient PT.

Today I start trying to cut my pain medicine dosage in half. I can stretch the current dose out to 6 hours between, now I’m back to every 4 hours, but only half the dose. We’ll see how it goes. I have to go to LMH to do a blood draw every 2-3 days to monitor my dose of the blood thinner I’m on. So I get to get out today sometime.

I get my staples out next week!! Then I can get out and about more without so much worry about infection.

I can sleep on my non-surgical side with a pillow between my knees, which is such a relief. I can also cook eggs for my breakfast and bake cookies, with plenty of rest during the process. I can hang out in the living room on the new furniture my mom and Joe B bought me. Little Sara has gotten good at moving my walker up and down the stairs. She is so careful with me. She waits at the bottom of the stairs as I head down, looking like she is ready to catch me if I fall. Lol. And Shelby is always thinking ahead of things I might need. I have very thoughtful and caring babies.

And movies….I’m getting finally watch a bunch of movies I’ve wanted to see for a long time. Finally got Joe B hooked on “House of Cards” so we are starting with Season 1. We haven’t binge-watched anything in years.

We have so appreciated all the meals provided by friends, organized by Makyla King. And Jeri Johnson for organizing the lunch at my house last week, and the early Christmas dinner she is bringing over tonight.

The not-so-good-news:  all the meds and the recovery process are giving me night sweats and occasional chills. I’ve woken up a few times with a damp shirt that needs to be changed. I don’t have a fever and I’ve talked to my home health nurse about it. All of my blood work is fine. It seems as if this is just something to deal with. It messes with my sleep though…I find myself waking up every few hours. I’ve been scrolling my Facebook and my Twitter in the middle of the night, that’s where all the recipe posts come from, in case anyone was wondering what my sudden interest in all kinds of recipes is…..

Wearing these white compression tights is getting old. Really old. And they have an opening in the top of the foot, yet my foot is supposed to stay inside. Shelby bugs me by moving the hole and making my toes stick out, then she laughs and takes off….lol. Smh….

I knew my emotions might feel like a huge roller coaster ride during the recovery process. It was a concern I expressed to Joe and to my doctors before my surgery. And I found I had good reason to be concerned. Had one really bad day where all I felt like doing was crying….for no reason. I had to read up on the night sweats and the roller-coaster emotions, and found out those are normal things in recovering from a traumatic surgery such as hip replacement. So that helped me relax a bit.

I still get tired easily and I go lay down as soon as I feel like that. I used to have a hard time resting when there was always something that needed to be done, but Joe B is doing so much, and the girls and my family are helping, where I don’t feel any kind of way about resting and getting better and stronger. And since Joe B’s area of expertise is health education, I told him that I was glad I married him….lol. He changes the dressing like a pro, monitors my meds, helps me move my pillows around so I can change positions when I sleep, and makes sure I don’t over due anything.

All in all, I’m making excellent progress. I’m glad I’m a homebody because staying at home doesn’t bother me.

Day 5 Post Hip Replacement Surgery

Originally posted to my Facebook page on December 18, 2015

Day 5 Post Hip Replacement Surgery:

My Lawrence, KS family, headed up by Jeri Johnson, planned a little lunch for me in my home today and a white elephant gift exchange. She wanted to get me in the holiday spirit. Which is a big deal for Jeri to plan and do, because she is a total Halloween girl….I don’t think she even considers Christmas a real holiday. Hahaha. Jk. Thank you Jeri and Freda and Makyla, Joe B and my mom and dad. It was a lot of fun and I really enjoyed the company.

I got to take a shower today finally. Joe had to wrap up my leg with Saran Wrap Press N Seal and some tape so the dressing wouldn’t get wet. He did such a good job, that bandage was still completely dry when I was done. Washing my hair and fixing it, putting my contacts in, felt so normal and good.

My mom wanted to get Sara out of the house for a bit today…so Sara went with her but she told her grandma she needed to get back to take care of me because her dad was gone taking Shelby to practice. My 9-year old is so responsible already. It’s truly heartwarming how Shelby and her are both so helpful and careful around me and my hip and my incision.

I can get in and out of bed with ease because I have good upper body strength. The only exercise and movement i have difficulty with is moving my surgical leg out to the side, but Joe said it’s because that movement uses the 2 small muscles the surgeon detached to get to my hip joint. I am getting used to laying down and sleeping whenever I start feeling tired. I’m still surprised how quickly I can fall asleep,and how quickly I can get tired even when I am feeling good.

Still taking my pain pills to stay ahead of the pain, but I can stretch out the doses to 6 hours now. Samantha keeps telling me that this is no time for me be all gangsta, that I need to take the pills as scheduled until I’m a little further out from my surgery. Lol. I’m not a fan of the pain pills like I thought I would be….hahahaha. I am looking forward to being done with them as soon as I can be.

The meals keep coming and they are all delicious! Jennifer Donnely brought over baked chicken, rosemary new potatoes and green beans last night, and tonight Andea LeBeau Spottedhorse brought chicken fajitas. Everything tastes so good and is very much appreciated. I am surrounded by awesome people. And everything is so healthy!!!! That’s just icing on the cake!!

Day 4 Post-Hip Replacement Surgery

Originally posted to my Facebook page on December 17, 2015:

Day 4 Post Hip Replacement Surgery:

I have a good track from our bedroom to the kitchen island and around for me to do my laps with my walker. Joe B has told me to slow down twice as I went speeding down the hallway. I don’t think I’m going very fast, but I do slow down when he tells me to.

I have 21 staples in my hip, and the incision is 14 centimeters long. Joe B can change the dressing like a pro. The home health nurse was impressed with my surgeon, said the healing incision was perfect. No bruising, no redness or swelling, etc.

It feels so good to be home. I crashed out for a nap soon after arriving home yesterday. Joe B is running the household and the Swirlies are so helpful. I think we all slept good last night for the first time since the weekend.

We’ve had some wonderful meals delivered by Leona Azure, A’sha Pruitt, Melissa & Isaiah Stewart, and Shelby’s GS Troop. Fresh food and delicious recipes…everything is very much appreciated.

I am doing my sets of exercises for PT on my own. Made Joe B a little nervous when I told him I was going to practice walking stairs. 2 trips up and down and I had enough. He was pleased that I’m not pushing myself, that for now I am taking things slowly.

Some of my nutty friends (and I have several…), were saying that I would be able to tell the ethnicity of my blood donor by my food cravings after my transfusion. If I craved spicy food, curry, Italian food, etc., Lol.

I must have received blood from a health nut donor….or a vegan. Because all I’ve been craving are fresh veggies and fruits and water. Hahahaha….Joe B just said, “Oh Noooooooo….”

Joe B and Shelby picked out a grabbity-grabber tool for me. It’s awesome. No more calling someone to pick up the end of my phone charger, I can reach a remote control on the TV stand from my bed, and I can pick up one of my pill bottles.

And now Shelby is trying to over on my grabbity-grabber 3000 and demonstrating how she could wrangle snakes with it…the demo is complete with her using one of her stuffed cobras.

Kurbo Health – a media savvy way for kids and teens to manage their health and lose weight

I have cut and pasted this blog from the Kurbo Health website (www.kurbo.com). My family has been doing this program since March and I’ve been waiting to see how we liked the program before posting about it. Based on Shelby’s great progress thus far in the program, I was asked to contribute a guest blog to their website. It was long and detailed, and I told Kurbo they could edit it for length as needed or give me suggestions on where to cut it down and I would do it. They ended up running my whole story in two parts. This is Part 1.

It’s an awesome feeling to see your words in print on a national website, as well as links to the article posted on Kurbo’s FaceBook page. So here it is. I am posting the link to the blog on the Kurbo website at the bottom of this blog entry.

Seeking Good Health: Story of a Kurbo Mom Part 1 – Quick Results

This article is Part One of a two-part series from a Kurbo mom, Shelley Bointy.

My family began doing the Kurbo program in March 2015 to support my daughter Shelby, 10 years old, in her quest to become healthier. I teach a diabetes education course at an American Indian tribal college, so I am well-versed in the signs and symptoms of metabolic disorder and type 2 diabetes. Although I am health conscious and have training and education in nutrition and wellness, I am susceptible to the same traps that other parents fall into when it comes to helping their kids develop healthy habits and achieving good health.

Depending on my stress levels and workload, I used to have chips and sweets in the house, default to Jimmy John’s for dinner, and physical activity was negotiable. My health habits had a big impact on my oldest daughter Shelby. She loves to snack on carbohydrate-rich snacks and will always choose simple carbs over proteins. Shelby dislikes soda and I don’t buy juice, so that’s a battle I’m thankful I never had to fight but I realized the “occasional” treats were becoming more frequent.

We had been told by her doctor a few years ago that she was overweight. Her doctor wanted to see her maintain her weight during the next year, or not gain more than 5 pounds. Shelby continued to gain more than what was recommended each year, even though we kept her active in sports. Last September I noticed that the skin around her neck was starting to darken and it worried me. That darkening and thickening of the skin around her neck (Acanthosis Nigricans) is a symptom of metabolic disorder and can be a symptom of type 2 diabetes. I brought her in to see her doctor and she ordered a full blood workup to test her glucose and lipid panel (total cholesterol, HDL, LDL cholesterols and triglycerides). She also strongly suggested that we get my youngest daughter tested as well, so that we would be taking a family approach to this so it wouldn’t be perceived as “there is something wrong with Shelby”.

Taking my girls in for that fasting blood test made me feel like the worst parent on the planet. I taught a diabetes class and my husband is a health instructor and a college sports coach. I felt like we were both failures at that moment, but I also felt that we were well-equipped to find a solution and carry it out. We were beyond grateful when Shelby’s bloodwork all came back well within the normal ranges, as did her sister’s. But we knew we had to make some serious and lasting changes.

My motivation to find and try Kurbo didn’t come until March, almost 6 months after the girls’ fasting tests. Shelby had gone through an entire season of competitive basketball and 2 seasons of volleyball, and she still gained weight. I knew we had to try something different to help her return to good health and we are fortunate we came across the Kurbo program.

Shelby and her coach, Arielle, seemed to hit it off right away. Shelby and her sister downloaded the Kurbo app and began tracking, played the games to learn all the different green light, yellow light, and red light foods.  We decided everyone in the family was going to track and do the same thing.

Shelby saw positive results right away. She lost 5 pounds within the first few weeks of the program and we noticed that her energy level had increased. She was more active in her playtime, she ran and jumped around the house more. It was a little difficult for her to understand at first how to budget her red lights but she quickly realized that she could have her favorite red light foods, she just had to plan and pick and choose with discernment.

Her motivation is strong on some days and wanes on other days, as does my own motivation. She has had some awesome moments where she has really thought about her goals and battled through some tough junk food situations. This is where the weekly coaching sessions with Arielle have been the most beneficial. As her mom, I’ve had my own difficult moments as well. I tend to be a stress eater, and there were several times I wanted chips at work, but knowing how hard she was working kept me on plan. We are all supporting each other and doing our best to make healthier choices with every meal and snack. I am extremely proud of her effort and her dedication to be healthier.

Shelley Bointy is a mother of two, a health educator and award-winning Powwow dancer. She shares her Indigenous/Native/Dakota Winyan perspective on her health/wellness blog, www.wozaniwaste.com.

https://www.kurbo.com/blog/seeking-good-health-part-1/


Some Thoughts on “National Day of Running”

Today is the “National Day of Running”. I assisted in getting a couple of my friends/relatives running several years ago, and we helped found a local American Indian running group called The Smoking Moccasins. Some highly motivated individuals then created a youth running group for local Native Youth called The Mini Mocs.

I miss running. So I try to run a little bit with Shelby now. I have to accommodate my hip arthritis by changing my stride and my foot strike. Where I once had a mid-foot strike, I now have to focus on a fore-foot strike, so that my feet and ankles will absorb most of the impact. Then I have to shorten my stride to accommodate the new fore-foot strike and also to keep myself low to the ground. I can’t bound like I used to, again in an effort to minimize what impact I can on my hip joints. So I’m running. It’s not pretty and it’s not fast…it’s not even continuous. I feel like an agitated turtle at times. But I am running.

I had some thoughts on running yesterday and updated my FaceBook status. I decided to turn that update into a blog entry since it coincides with today’s running holiday. 🙂

I remember dancing at Prairie Island Wacipi in 2007, the year after I had Sara. We had to contest Sunday afternoon in the blistering heat. It was so hot the heat from the ground just burned right through the bottoms of our moccasins. Our brother Clay Crawford said to me, “Do you and Joe run outside in that Kansas heat? It really must help. Everyone else looks like the heat is getting to them except for you two.” Lol.

What I remember from my running days is that yes, training in the heat (not in the hottest part of the day, but when the heat was still high) helped with my powwow conditioning. Also running outside on the cross country trail. The combination of running outside and on grass or gravel was very effective. When you run on an uncontrolled surface, it strengthens all the little helper muscles in your feet, ankles, and knees in order to keep your joints stable. Ideal training for shawl dancers and fancy dancers to prepare to dance on grass. It kept my ankles from rolling as much they used to even after I had my kids.

I’m seeing videos and snaps of young powwow dancers running on treadmills. My strong advice: If you have a safe place to do so, get outside and find some grass or gravel to run on. If you live somewhere blistering hot then run early in the morning or in the evening before dark. If you run races and train on grass, you will be able to fly when you race on a controlled surface. I noticed the difference when I started to rely more on treadmill runs than cross country trail runs. One of the first times my sister ever beat me in a 5K was because she trained on grass while I ran on pavement or on a treadmill. When we got onto a controlled surface, she was just fast.

Running on grass or gravel is better for your joints that running on concrete or a treadmill, (unless you have existing knee issues, then running on an uncontrolled surface may not feel so great). But if you don’t have access to a safe place to run on a soft surface, running on any surface is better than doing nothing.

That’s my public health PSA for today. Thank you. Lol.

Encourage, don’t discourage

I am always happy to see others succeed in their quest for health, especially those who have been unhealthy for most of their adult lives. It’s gratifying and encouraging when our Native people (or any group of people who suffer from similar health disparities as American Indians) find the motivation to learn about nutrition, physical activity, and how to incorporate both into their daily lives. However, I take issue with those new to the health scene calling others down for their lack of knowledge or motivation. I am thinking of specific examples where I’ve read about people on social media sites bragging themselves up and simultaneously putting others down for not being “on their level”….whatever that means. And the same people bragging themselves up and putting others down have just recently discovered their own good health.

Those people who engage in that type of behavior don’t realize that we remember how unhealthy they were 5 minutes ago. They are not in a position to judge others and their efforts, or lack of efforts. I also take issue with those who make condescending remarks or belittle those who are trying to be health and/or active. People don’t realize how fortunate they are to have grown up with sports or active families…..or to have grown up with parents/caregivers who cooked all the time and had basic healthy eating knowledge, and access to healthy/whole foods. I see kids in my own community whose parents don’t feel that sports are important, or they don’t get out and engage in activity with their kids. Also people don’t realize how fortunate they are to have healthy, fully functioning bodies….bodies without arthritis, without chronic injuries or illness, bodies that don’t prevent them from doing anything they want to do.

I will admit to being a running snob towards one or two people that I didn’t care for back in the day….I remember thinking and making a couple of comments about someone I had seen running for a few years, that with all their running you would think they might be a little faster or look a little lighter….the epitome of a running snob. But since then I’ve seen that there is no excuse for that type of behavior and snobbishness. We don’t know by looking at someone what their story is, or what their challenges are. Maybe that person whom I saw running at a snails pace for years has managed to keep from gaining 50 pounds and prevented diabetes with that activity. Maybe that person has some health issues that keep their running from looking like what we believe to be a runner’s pace/gait/form/body. Maybe the person NOT running and just walking is a former runner who physically can’t run anymore. Maybe the person who expresses their pride in running 3 miles has just done something they never thought they were capable of.

We don’t need to put others down in order to elevate ourselves. And we are in no position to judge another’s journey towards health.

We, as Native people, need to encourage others in our quest for health. We need to model the behavior that we want others to emulate. We need to do this so the generations that follow will be healthy and ensure our continued presence on this planet. And the people most secure and sincere in their own quest for health are the ones who are most encouraging to others. Be that kind of person. We can’t have too many of those in our communities.

Learning Gratitude in 2014

Today is January 31 and tonight people will be celebrating the coming of the New Year. In typical New Year’s fashion, I am reflecting a bit on the past year. I love the beginning of the calendar New Year. People are motivated and hopeful….I’m not into the “New Year-New Me” kind of thing because I’ve learned that you can’t wait to make positive change, but I’m always happy to see people motivated. That positive energy is contagious.

I actually renewed my health goals at the beginning of December. I didn’t want to wait until New Year’s to do it. I wanted to get a jump start on what I want for myself and my family. I went back to Weight Watchers (which helped me lose 32 pounds in 2001-2002), and continued with my personal training sessions. I’m going to begin my New Year 7 pounds lighter as a result. I’m also going to begin 2014 feeling much better mentally, spiritually, and emotionally than the last 2 years.

The biggest contributor to the improved mental/spiritual/emotional condition in 2014 was actively practicing gratitude….consistently remembering to give thanks as soon as I wake up. We tend to think we are grateful for this life, but you notice a difference when you start to consciously develop the habit of saying “Thank you” and counting your blessings upon waking. It puts me in a positive frame of mind before I get out of bed. It generates positive energy. And like I said a few paragraphs ago, positive energy is contagious.

Gratitude brings positive energy….positive energy brings peace of mind and spirit….and that peace leaves room for the good stuff, like being happy for others and enjoying their successes. It also brings the belief that you can have your own success in whatever way you define that for yourself, and motivates you to take the steps to gain that success.

I do love this life and everyone in it. It’s amazing when I hear my children say at random times, “I’m thankful for…….” As I am re-learning gratitude, they are learning it as well. My Christmas gift from my babies was  bracelet with a charm that says, “I love you to the moon and back”, and it came on a card that said: Love this life….Love is about welcoming the blind turn and the possibility that there’s no such thing as coincidence….and that empathy is incredibly sexy….and that it’s never too late to pick up a guitar or a paintbrush…or to make an amend or to make a new friend….Love this Life.

Those are my thoughts this morning in my quiet house, while everyone sleeps…..while enjoying my coffee. Feeling grateful for all the blessings in my life.

Hip Dysplasia…..who knew?

It’s official. All the cartilage is gone from both hips. And it’s time to look for surgeon and decide what surgery I want to have. Less than two years after my diagnosis of hip osteoarthritis, and two years of trying to figure out WHY my case of OA was so severe in someone as young as I am, I finally have a few answers.

I saw an orthopedic surgeon who specializes in joint replacement last week. My biggest question to date was wondering what caused my hip osteoarthritis. He took one look at my x-rays when I asked him if my OA was simply from wear and tear, and he said, “I can tell you why you have OA….you have hip dysplasia.” Hip dysplasia is a condition where the hip joint is malformed. Typically the socket of the joint isn’t large enough, one side is shorter than it is supposed to be. Or the shape of the head of the femur is a little off. Either way, it’s a condition people are born with. And the wear and tear on the hip joints and cartilage is similar to how a tire tread wears out. If the alignment of the two front tires is off, if the tires are curved in slightly at the top, the tire treads will wear out faster. The hip dysplasia causes irregular movement of the joint, which causes the cartilage to wear out. It also causes the joint to try to grow new bone in an effort to correct the movement, which is why I have the bone spurs at the top and bottom of the hip socket that are causing the impingement and have limited my range of motion. And similar to a tire trying to run out of alignment for years, the tires will blow out eventually. So that’s me….the hip dysplasia has blown out my hip cartilage. Osteoarthritis is an inevitable outcome of hip dysplasia.

I had been doing some research on hip replacement and hip resurfacing, and my next question for the doctors was, “Am I a candidate for hip resurfacing?” Instead of removing the top of the femur and replacing with a metal rod and ball joint (either ceramic or metal), the resurfacing smooths down the head and neck of the femur and caps it with a metal alloy, and also lines the interior of the hip socket with metal. This smooths out all the bone spurs, preserves the bone for future hip replacement surgery, and is typically a better alternative to younger patients who are active. I found an NHL hockey player who returned to pro hockey after having hip resurfacing, so I was hoping I was a candidate. I am not. Hip resurfacing is for people with larger, thicker bones. I am not big enough. Shaving and smoothing the head and neck of my femur (making it thinner than it is now) would put me at-risk for future fractures.

So total hip replacement it is. Then I wondered about the typical recovery time from hip replacement surgery. I was advised by my orthopedist here in town to look for a surgeon that used a direct or modified anterior approach. That approach doesn’t cut through any muscle tissue, it moves the muscles apart to get at the bone and joint, so the joint remains stable and the recovery time is quicker (less time for muscle and nerve tissue to repair itself). The joint replacement specialist said 1 day in the hospital for the surgery, 2-3 day stay post-surgery, then a total of 6 weeks off work. THREE MONTHS TOTAL RECOVERY TIME!!! He said 3 months until I am back to my old self. I had thought it would be closer to 6 months total recovery time. I am also looking for a ceramic ball joint, preferably one that is a larger size so I can still be active. The doctor advised against running and jumping sports in order to preserve the life of the artificial joint, so I didn’t bother to ask him about shawl dancing. But I fully intend to return to shawl dancing. Running I’ve found I can live without, especially if the choice is between running and shawl dancing. Shawl dancing will win every time. I can run in water and I can do the elliptical. I will maintain my Olympic style weight training regimen. I’ve found other effective ways of training.

And speaking of training, after a few months of my emotions and my motivation moving in steep waves as I’ve had to wait on my consults, it’s time to put a stronger emphasis on my training and eating. I want to plan for this surgery and the recovery time. I want to be in very good condition whenever I schedule to help facilitate a good surgery and as easy a recovery time as I can. And it will help me deal with the wait time for my 2nd consult with a highly recommended surgeon that I can’t get in to see until March 31.

My goal before my recent consults was to preserve what hip cartilage I had left and to manage the pain. Now my goal is to get my weight down and get as strong as I can to help with the surgery and recovery. It helps in ways I can’t describe to finally know what caused my OA and why it was so bad in someone my age. Now that I know I can keep an eye on my daughters and get them checked for hip dysplasia when they are in their teens. Hopefully by then, if they do have it, technology will come up with a good treatment to correct it so that my girls won’t have to go through what I am going through. It feels good to have hope again, and to have very clear goals. My life won’t be the same, but that is just the nature of life. It changes. It helps us grow usually by putting us through things we wouldn’t wish on others. My life won’t be the same but it will be better in so many different ways….no pain, range of motion back, and more experiences to share that may help others. I truly feel that I have been blessed far more than I deserve. 🙂