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Weight Training Update

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I wanted to give an update on the strength training and the T25. 🙂 I have temporarily shelved the T25, but have plans to return to it once I get stronger. I found that although it didn’t bother my hip, it was starting to bother my knees….which I found strange. Again, I think it’s the strength issue. I think my joints need more muscular support from all the “helper muscles” to keep my joints stable when going through the T25 routines. Also the extra weight I am trying to lose is a factor in any joint pain from the lower back and hip on down. So for now it’s shelved but I will pick it back up again.

I did start lifting at work like I had planned. Kirmayer Fitness Center at KU Medical Center has an awesome weight area, two areas in fact. I headed for the machine area and I loved all of them. I had to overcome my inherent shyness because I picked the busiest day of the summer (when they were holding a student resources fair in Kirmayer) to begin my weight training and both areas were very busy. But I didn’t let it deter me and I felt good about making the effort.

Then my sister found a personal trainer here in town that used to work at Haskell as their certified trainer for their athletic department. She visited with him and discovered he was running an intro special on individual training sessions. He does Olympic-style weight lifting, something I didn’t have a clue about but was interested in. So Sharon set us up with an appointment last week and I’m heading into my 3rd session with Travis.

I was able to visit with him before we started our first session and I told him my health history and my goals. He did an excellent job of explaining how Olympic-style weight lifting will benefit me and my hip OA. He is very personable and very encouraging. You can tell immediately how knowledgeable he is about his work. From what he shared with me, Olympic-style weight lifting is all about learning how to do the “Clean and Jerk”, and I am fortunate that he is acquainted with a power lifter who has gone through total hip replacement surgery and still returned to lifting heavy

My sister and I are doing 2 individual training sessions per week with Travis. It’s fun working out with my sister again, so I am very grateful to her for finding this and encouraging me to try it. Right now we are all about learning technique and proper form. I really like how I can feel the different muscles in my back firing as well as the muscles that I know need to be strengthened around my hips and legs. We are learning at a good pace where I can tell later that day (or the next day) that I’ve put in some work, but I can still move around. My favorite thing about this is that it’s brand new to me….so it’s really interesting. I’m learning something new and it’s helped immensely at getting me motivated to lift again.

Travis has just created a website for those in my area that may be interested. Here is the link:
http://www.travisbarrett.com/

He also has a Facebook page, Barrett Sport Performance LLC.

I’ll update this later as I progress through this individual training program. I have another session today and I’m looking forward to it. 🙂

Motivation….that elusive “thing”

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I have osteoarthritis in both hips. I am only 46 years old and I am looking at total hip replacement surgery sometime down the line. It’s hard for me to run because of the ensuing joint pain and I’m losing range of motion in my right hip. It’s painful to tie my shoes or tape up my moccasins when I dance. I can’t dance the way I used to even 2 years ago….I have to modify several of my steps or just not do them.

I am getting a good lesson in dealing with a chronic condition….like diabetes or lupus or rheumatoid arthritis. It’s hard. It’s hard to get motivated to find what works to manage the pain. It’s hard and very emotional when I look at what may be down the line for me…it’s hard when I think about losing the things that have been such a big part of me for so long. Like running and shawl dancing. I have a lot of ups and downs and it’s hard to tell anyone about it because I don’t want to drag anyone down, and I don’t feel very many understand. I just recently went through a very difficult and emotional time, one of several that I’ve experienced in the last 20 months.

But this week I have felt awesome. Really really good. I feel like I have found and gotten a good grip on that thing that health educators talk about all the time…”motivation”.  Defined as “the general desire or willingness of someone to do something.” In order to make positive change, we must be motivated to do so. I remember working a social work job and one of the social work specialists said, “They don’t train us in this job how to motivate people to change.” Which is true. While psychologists or public health workers can be trained in motivational interviewing (a technique used to evaluate the level of a person’s willingness to change and help push them forward), most people in the helping professions are at a loss as to how to motivate people.

There are 2 types of motivation: “Intrinsic” and “Extrinsic”. Extrinsic motivation is where your motivation comes from an external source….like getting good grades because your parents offer to pay you for every A on your report card, or buying you something if you make the Dean’s List. There are endless examples of extrinsic motivation….but this type of motivation is short-lived. It may last until the reward has been earned and then it’s gone. It may disappear before the reward is earned if the reward seems too far away or unattainable. Point is, It doesn’t last long. Intrinsic motivation, is the internal desire to change….it can be based on some type of perceived reward or fear that hits close to home. My best example of that is when a grandparent makes long-term changes to their health regimen in order to be able to see their grandchildren grow up. Or a person decides to lose weight or exercise more, not because they want to improve their appearance alone, but because they want to FEEL better both physically and emotionally.

My motivation has had some severe ups and downs since my diagnosis. I believe I’ve had a string of short-term motivated times because my motivation has been extrinsic…I’ve been motivated to do my PT exercises until I felt it wasn’t really helping the pain or help me get back to running. I’ve been motivated to just keep doing what I’ve been doing, kind of like rebelling against my OA, only to be struck down by debilitating joint pain. I’ve been motivated to try all different kinds of supplements until I overdid my activity and felt miserable because of the pain.

These days I feel very motivated. And I believe the positive vibe I have going is because I’m finally sorting out everything I have tried before, which includes changes in diet, supplements, hot yoga, biking, reaching out to friends and family, and changing my way of thinking of my dance career. A few weeks ago I was looking at the near-end of my shawl dance career….I thought that I could last another year or two at the most and then I would be done. And when that sunk in, I grieved….like I was losing a life-friend. Thankfully my friends, my companion, and my family pulled me out of that pit of despair. I have a sense of hope now….which feels brand new to me. And I have a deep-seated confidence, which is also new, that I will achieve my wellness goals that I have altered in a positive and realistic way. Both of those feelings, the hope and the confidence, have boosted my motivation.

My motivation comes now from knowing that I can manage my OA pain. It’s not hopeless. A good quality of life is not out of my reach.  I’ve had several weeks of pain-free joints and I’m confident that what I’m doing is working and that I can continue. I KNOW what works now. Limiting carbohydrates in my diet, taking some supplements that are working, including Xyngular’s Global Blend, alfalfa, Omega-3, a B-complex, and drinking my turmeric tea. Drinking alot of water. Eating alot of nutrient rich vegetables. Avoiding commercially raised feed-lot red meat and switching to grass-fed beef. I love the elliptical machine…it feels like I’m running without the joint pain. Stretching, I am learning to love and get better at. And getting my rest. My motivation increases each day that I wake and can walk with little to no pain. And my shawl dancing….we’ll see how that goes. But I’m hopeful. I’m focused and grateful for what my body can do….instead of obsessing about what it can’t do. I’m looking at all I have to gain with maintaining these positive changes, instead of thinking about what I am losing. When I make food choices in a restaurant I think about what will help me the most, and that means selecting salmon and spinach and broccoli and giving away my bread and NOT ordering dessert. I don’t think about HAVING to give up a French Dip sandwich or a slice of lemon meringue pie, I think about all the good things the salmon and the Omega-3 and all those green veggies will do for my body and my joints. So my motivation comes from a place of positive thinking, encouragement, helping and healing my body. Because I want to feel better. I love how I feel when I do these things. The changes make my bad days not so bad and make the good days that much better. I’m making myself better, which will make me better for all those around me.

I really want to publicly thank my husband Joe B…who has had to put up with my mood swings but he never gives in to my negative thinking. And I want to thank my sister Sharon who is my biggest cheerleader and always finding new things for me to try. My sister Sandy, who with my sister Sharon, always keeps it real with me, and my BFF, my Maske, Erica….my example of perseverance through tough times. My brother Elwood because he has no idea of how special he is to me. Special acknowledgement and thanks to Mike LaFrombois and Kevin Tacan….the male version of “maske” for me. They both have such positive outlooks even with all they deal with, and lend me their good vibes all the time. They are excellent listeners, and Kevin recommended the alfalfa supplements. These people help hold me up even if they don’t realize it, and I’m eternally grateful. Wopida tanka to each of you, and to the others I didn’t mention (you know who you are) who have helped me in any way.

Some of the “Rules” I Go By

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I just came home from a trip to a powwow in Michigan. Drove all night to get there, danced all weekend, drove all night traveling home. I am exhausted. When I am this tired I have the most trouble trying to stick to my healthy eating and exercise. I have many many times that I don’t feel like working out, many times that I actually don’t. As for healthy eating 24/7….lol. That doesn’t happen in my house. But we try. And I have found a few things that help me push through the times that I feel like I’m failing at my healthy habits and doing healthy things for my family.

It feels like there are a million different “rules” that govern healthy eating and activity. Don’t eat this, make sure you eat that….etc. People tend to give up on any eating plan when they encounter difficulty sticking to the rules or guidelines of the plan. They get frustrated with having to start over, or wonder why they can’t stick to it 100% of the time. Same with working out. If they can’t get their workouts in everyday as planned they tend to give up. So here are two of my “Rules” that help me persist in my search for good health.

“80/20 Rule”:  I don’t remember the exact place where I read this rule, I did not come up with this on my own. It basically says to strive to adhere to your plan of eating and/or exercise 80% of the time. 80% shows consistency and persistence. It is much better than 0% and also far preferable to 50%. Strive to stay on-plan 80% of the time and then you have 20% for incidentals…such as a time crunch that leaves you little-to-no opportunity to get a health meal or workout, fatigue, stress-induced cravings or naps, or to just treat yourself. 80% is your goal and you can relax with the remaining 20%. This helps me feel accomplished on the days that I feel like I’m falling off of everything. If I can eat really good and healthy 80% out of my day or week, I feel ok about letting myself have a little indulgence for the 20% of the day/week.

“!5-Minute Rule”. Again, I don’t remember the exact place I read this, I know it was years ago. The 15-Minute Rule is put in use during times of procrastination…when you don’t feel like doing something you need to do. Such as workout, study for school, or write a new blog entry. 🙂 If I am feeling very tired but I have a run planned for after work, instead of heading for the couch (which is what I want more than anything at that moment), I tell myself, “If I start my run right NOW, I will only run for 15 minutes then I’ll stop.”  Or, “If I start to study/write this paper right NOW, I’ll only study/write for 15 minutes then I’ll stop.” See a pattern here?  The idea behind committing to 15 minutes immediately is this….once you get going on your run, studying, writing, 9 times out of 10 you will complete your task.

I’ve put the 15-Minute Rule into effect many, many times. Sometimes I do feel like quitting my run after 15 minutes. I’ll tell myself then, “Ok, I think I can do another 10 minutes.” Then ten minutes later if I’m still not feeling it, “Ok, I’ll try another 5 minutes.” I kept giving myself small increments of time to run and pretty soon I had completed my entire workout.

Now, here is the beauty of the Rule…sometimes you won’t be able to talk yourself past 15 minutes of anything…sometimes you are done. Fork stuck in…just D.O.N.E. If that is the case, then BE DONE. You told yourself you will stop after 15 minutes, so by all means, stop. Even if you stop, you still will have gotten in 15 minutes of activity, which is far preferable, and much more beneficial to your body then zero minutes of activity.

Both rules encourage and promote consistency. Research has shown that the workouts you do consistently, even if they are mild to moderate, are more beneficial to your health than a vigorous workout only done occasionally. Walking for 30 minutes 6 times a week will bring more health benefits than running 5 miles 1-2 times per week.

So now, even though I am still recovering from my travels and I just want to lay down on the couch, I just told the Swirlies I would take them for a short bike ride….a 15 minute bike ride and then we are coming home. We’ll see how far we end up going. 🙂